Meme Instructions: Copy and paste the following statements in your post and complete them writing down the first thing that pops into your head. Don’t forget to link your post in the comments.
I am… unbreakable.
I want… pizza.
I have… an adorable longhair chihuahua asleep on my lap right now.
I wish… the world was a kinder place.
I hate… people who find enjoyment in anonymously belittling & bullying others.
I fear… how I’m going to die someday.
I search… for connection and proximity to those I care about.
I wonder… who I can truly put my trust in.
I regret… trusting people who didn’t earn or deserve my trust.
I never… stand up for myself like I should.
I always… drink my coffee every morning.
I usually… can look past people’s flaws and see the good in them. Usually.
I dance… to silly boy band tunes. Judge away.
I sing… quite terribly & all the time.
I often… spend too much time talking to my pets & wishing they could respond back.
I sometimes… devote entire days to doing absolutely nothing productive.
I cry… when animals die in movies, but usually not when people do.
I need… to spend less time on the computer. <–irony.
I should… be packing and organizing for my big real life move!
I love… being apart of this crazy world called Second Life & the people who our a part of mine.
Skin: Glam Affair | Aida Ewing – Katra (Available at Skin Fair 2015)
Freckles: L. Fauna | Launa Fauna (i believe they are no longer available)
Eyes: Adored | Constance Daehlie – Moon Eyes
Hair: Exile | Kavar Cleanslate – Give
Necklace: Yummy | Polyester Partridge – Embellished Key Necklace
So Miss Strawberry Singh has started her Monday Meme’s again which is very exciting. I always try and participate in a few a month when I can, and this Monday she’s issuing a challenge to take a Second Life yearbook photo. It’s fun looking through all the different yearbook photos in the flickr group she created. Every avatar has such different personalities. I really love seeing everyone’s smiling pixel faces!
So here is mine, in all it’s freckled glory! I totally look like the class dork.
Skin: Glam Affair | Aida Ewing – Amberly II
Freckles: Belleza | Shyla Diggs
Eyes: Adored | Constance Daehlie – Dawn Eyes
Lashes: FTL | Framboise Werribee – Kirei Lashes
Hair: Truth | Truth Hawks – Sian
Sweater: Emery | Sunami Beck – Paz Knit Sweater (available at January’s FaMESHed)
Necklace: Olive | naminaeko – Folded Paper Necklace
Pose: Marukin | Valencia Southard
I decided to take part in the Bare Face Challenge that Genkai Tesla started! The challenge has been taking the Second Life blogger, designer, and picture taker community by storm! Countless people have taken part in this fun & uplifting challenge, so I decided I would join in as well. The challenge consists of no makeup, no lashes, no photoshop. Just a bare image of your avatar.
So here I am!
Credits below for the few other items in this image!
Skin: League | Nena Janus – Erin
Freckles: A mix of Pink Fuel & Belleza.
Hair: Truth Hair | Truth Hawks – Aida
Eyes: Buzzeri | Eleri Catlyn – Celestial Eyes
Dress: Tee*fy | Azure Electricteeth – Flutter Dress (available at November’s Collabor88)
I finally am getting around to doing another one of Strawberry Singh’s Memes. This time I’m going to do her Introspection Meme. I’m feeling a little bit more thoughtful and serious than normal, so now was better than ever.
1. Regardless of your current number, how old do you actually feel?
I turn twenty eight this upcoming Tuesday, and while I’m dreading the fleeting end to my twenties, I feel much older. I tend to relate to people who are much older than myself. My best friend is quite a bit older than I am, and even my coworkers I relate to best, are the ones with a significant age increase. Even when I’m home with my family up north, I tend to spend time with my parents and their friends instead of people my own age.
2. Which is worse, failing or never trying?
That depends. If we are talking about sky diving, than no offense, but I think I’d rather never try, than fail and fall to my death! LOL! I think this also goes for drug use. I really don’t want to fail and overdose. Say though, we are talking about love, or a friendship, or something on the emotional side of things. I will always try, even if it does lead to failure or heartache.
3. If the average human life span was 40 years, How would you live your life differently?
I would go on more adventures. See more things. Do more things. I’d also probably buy far fewer beauty products, and not care so much about the impending fine lines and wrinkles.
4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
Doing the right things. For sure. Also, this question sort of confuses me. LOL.
5. Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton?
A joyful simpleton. I am a firm believer in ignorance is bliss. At least with some things. A good example is, I’m completely happy with my simple joyful life, until I get on Facebook and see what everyone else is doing with their lives. People buying houses, or starting families, or doing BIG things, and then I start to feel worried that I’m doing things too slowly, or I’m missing out on things. So, I rather be simple, and joyful, and ignorantly blissful.
6. Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?
No. Not at all. I’m ashamed of it really. I live in my own little bubble, and I am tremendously horrible at reaching out to those around me. If you call out to me, I’ll listen, and if you approach me, I’m a good friend. I’m just not the type to reach out first unfortunately. It’s something I should challenge myself to work on. Especially in SL.
7. Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset? Does it really matter now?
I went through a really horrible break up many many years back. I thought I was dying. I truly thought my heart was going to be ripped from my body and I was going to not live through it. It was a kind of pain I’d never experienced. Now, I look back, and see the man who broke my heart, and realize that I am so much better in the place I’m at now, and that I never needed him in the first place. I don’t even think about him, or miss him any longer at all. So to all of you out there who have been extremely upset or heartbroken recently…don’t let it defeat you, and do not give up. I promise you, one day you are going to look back and think… Why did I even shed a solitary tear over that person?
8. At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
A guy recently at work noticed the sweatshirt I had on, and the college I went to. He said he was impressed and that the college was a fantastic school. It really made me feel proud & accomplished to know that I worked hard to graduate from such a great school.
9. If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job?
No. I love my job. I work with animals on a daily basis, and I see the good that my line of work does. I see happy things, and horribly heartbreaking things, but I know that each and every animal that walks through the doors either leaves better than when they came in, or no longer suffers. Why would I want to leave from something so good? I love contributing to my job. A million dollars would just allow me to go on greater vacations, give more to what I’m passionate about (animals!), and know I’m going to retire a little more comfortably.
10. If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today?
I don’t think I’d visit anyone to be honest. I think it would be too painful. I think I would send each person a letter/email (I guess email since they only have 24 hours left), just letting them know how much I love them and why I’ve appreciated them so much. That way I reach more people in a shorter amount of time. Hmm…did I cheat on this question then?
11. What do you feel is the difference between being alive and truly living?
I think truly living is when you are contributing to the greater good of something, and making that be something you love and have passion for. For me, it’s animals, so I’ve tried hard to surround myself with a job, and a life that benefits the creatures I inhabit this earth with. It makes me feel like I’m living with a purpose.
12. If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?
I think the fear of the unknown can paralyze us. I know it does for me.
13. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
I’d walk around with no pants on. All the time.
14. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?
Try your hardest to be kind to everyone, and don’t let your bad experiences & your scars turn you into a cold and hateful person.
Skin: Glam Affair | Aida Ewing – Mokatana
Hair: Truth | Truth Hawks – Faye
Eyelids: SLink | Siddean Munro
Hands: SLink | Siddean Munro
Dress: Tee*fy | Azure Electricteeth (available at January’s Collabor88)
Feet: Glam Affair | Aida Ewing
Pose: Custom made by me for this pic.
I don’t often enter too many contests, but when I heard about The Loft Home Tour Contest, I knew it was an opportunity I simply could not pass up. The Loft has been a long time favorite store, and a staple on the Second Life Grid for what feels like ages. They have some of the highest quality designs, as well as some of the most realistic. I am, and always will be, a huge fan of The Loft.
I had a wonderful time decorating this house. It is the first house in a long time that I actually finished, down to the last detail. I’m proud of it. So so proud of it. I walk in, and the place just feels like home, and I take pride in letting people wander around and check out the details.
I hope that if you do stop by, you make yourself at home. Grab a cup of hot chocolate, a freshly baked cookie, and turn on the stream, because some cheerful Holiday tunes are echoing off the walls of this cozy winter home. Don’t mind Peanut my Great Dane. He’s harmless, and the only thing he’ll do is try and steal a bite of one of your cookies. Oh, and also…the house looks the best (in my own humble opinion) on the standard midnight windlight setting. There is just something about curling up by a fire in the wintertime darkness that is soothing and filled with comfort.
The contest has some absolutely fantastic entries, and I urge you to stop by and check each and every one of them out. Here is a list of the houses! You can tour them from now through December 7th, when they will announce the lucky winners.
Harlow Heslop (oh hey! That’s me!)
I hope you enjoy checking out all the great homes! I certainly enjoyed checking them out, and I think i’ll be making a second trip around to see them all before they aren’t on tour any longer! I’ll admit though…it feels so ODD wondering around other peoples houses! LOL.
If you have any questions on where ANYTHING is from at my house don’t hesitate to contact me. I’m so happy to share all the cozy details with you.